Our generation’s hook-up culture have made our life lot more confusing and definitely a mess. I am not against the idea of it but I feel that a lot of people sleep around to bury other issues they may be having in their lives.
Now a days it can be very difficult to figure out if a guy or girl is actually interested in you or is simply trying to release some stress.
Yes, he or she asked you to go out for some food and drinks, but then didn’t consider it to be “official” — whatever that means. “It’s not a date… we’re just hanging out (and then hopefully going to be having sex a bit later).”
There is no longer any standard that tells the exact time anybody should wait to have sex.
It used to be three dates. Before that, it was probably three months. And now three hours will do it if you can manage to pull it off. But is it acceptable? Depends who you ask.